"Love is something far more than a desire for sexual intercourse; it is the principal means of escape from the loneliness which afflicts most men and women throughout the greater part of their lives.
Bertrand Russell - 18th Century Philosopher
It's been a week since I last wrote in the good ole' blog. That's too much of a gap in there, especially considering that I have a lot to talk about. So I'll make it up to the readers this week....one entry a day (monday through friday).
So one day, I was sitting at this sports bar and something amazing happened. One dude was just conversing with this woman, and somehow all her baggage just came all out. She is a cute woman too. What I mean by baggage is this: she has apparently been did wrong in the past quite a few times. And now she is beyond her breaking point and I think has lost it some when it comes to dating men because now when she was explaining her dating mentality to everyone, she said she refuses to go on a date with a guy one-on-one. She needs one of her homegirls to go with her. I walked away from that group conversation at that point.
So me and this one guy were talking about women in general. He brought up a good point that I didn't really think about. A lot of women got it twisted about men because they think only the supposed roughnecks are the ones that can give them the lovin' and physical presence they desire. And because of that mentality, they go after those types of dudes, and more often than not, continuously get hurt. But all along, women really are looking for is a protector. They sleep on the nice guy or the laid back guy in the suit because he doesn't "appear" to have what they desire.
So I was thinking about that woman, and I feel bad for her. She needs a hug and some guidance. If ya see someone that got some baggage, just give them a hug and advise them to let it go. Baggage can make anybody look ugly because when they start talking about life, their face gets all tuned up, they get loud, body language gets forceful, and they get all close-minded to anything. So hugs are needed.
What one person did to you, don't carry it over to the next.
1 comment:
My last 2 bf's werent the roughneck type. The were country florida boys. They treated me bad though. So I have to sort of disagree that only the roughneck types treat women bad. From my experience, and many many other womens experience, men are just not able to treat a woman they way she wants to be treated. Period. And no, its not because we attract the wrong type of men. Its just because men suck. Period.
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