"Happiness is spiritual, born of Truth and Love. It is unselfish; therefore it cannot exist alone, but requires al mankind to share it."
Mary Baker Eddy - Founder of Christian Science
I am not sure what direction I am gonna take this thought in, so I'll just type without even thinking. :-)
I've been single for a little while now and this has given me the opportunity to get myself more in order in life and to focus on what purpose God has me here for. And while I've been doing that, I have also been in the dating world to see if their is a willing woman out there ready to walk life's journey with me. This is where things get crazy...
At first I thought women younger than 26 didn't fully know what they wanted out of life or still had lots of urges to wild out frequently. So then I dated older women, and I found most of them still don't know what they want either. But there were a few that did, and they were interested in settling down. Here is the kicker, lol!!!! They all said the following, "You're a good man, but I'm looking for the good man for me" or "You're too good to be true" or "I'm intimidated by you".
Here is my rant.....HELLO ladies! Cut the selfishness out. There is no such thing as the "good man for you". He does not exist. There are only good men, and everybody else. There is no need to search around for something that doesn't exist. Keep it up and you all will be 50yrs old alone and with a cat, lol.
"Too good to be true" lol...what planet are you from?!
And then, "I'm intimidated by you". Well you need to really sit down and have a talk with someone about your self esteem because if you are intimidated by anything I have accomplished in my life, then there is a serious problem going on. I'm all for helping folks better themself, and anytime I am able to out someone, I will do so. So if ya wanna talk about life and all its mysteries, I am here to listen and pass advice.
Well these thoughts are really geared towards most of the ladies in the Maryland/DC/Northern VA area. So ladies in the rest of the world, I hope none of these comments apply to ya.
I've got nothing but love for black women, and I can only see myself with you. But some of you need to really get it together and take a minute to yourself and think about what direction your mentality is taking you in life.
1 comment:
There is someone for everyone -even you -LoL. I feel that once you put GOD 1st he will direct your path in ALL aspects of your life -relationships included! It is when we are NOT looking that we find what we weren't expecting to find by the grace of GOD. He orders our steps and knows what is best for us. We are not in control, he is. It has already written.
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